Overthinking isn't a thinking problem. The mind, when it's anxious, generates the illusion that if you just think hard enough, long enough, and from enough angles, you'll arrive at an answer that finally makes you feel safe. So you keep thinking. The relief never comes, because the relief was never in the answer. It was in the hope of the answer.

There's a particular kind of person who arrives in therapy with the same opening line. I know I shouldn't be complaining. My life looks great on paper. What they describe inside the room is something different. A constant low-grade tension that never fully subsides. The inability to actually rest, even when the calendar finally clears. They've often spent years not understanding why they feel the way they feel, because the language around anxiety doesn't seem to fit them.